If you ask anyone in the veterinary world about the hardest thing to deal with in the industry, it will always be euthanizing pets. Euthanasia really takes a toll on us. Even though we encounter it on a frequent basis, we are affected every single time. And if it's hard on us, we can't imagine the pain you must feel. We understand how hard it is to lose your loved one, and want to share some helpful ways of coping with your pet's death.
Losing a pet is losing a family member. When we acquire a pet, we don't always realize how much they become a part of our lives. You feed him/her everyday and make sure he/she has plenty of water. You love on him/her and cuddle with him/her every day. You take him/her on walks and family vacations. You cry and show empathy when he/she is in pain. He/she takes over your Instagram profile. Let's face it, our pets are our children. We love and nurture them. When they pass away, it breaks our hearts.
Grieving
When your pet passes away or is euthanized, allow yourself to grieve. Cry and mourn. Seek help from your friends and family. It is normal to feel depressed or sad when you lose something you care about so much.
Hold Onto the Memories
Think back to the first time you laid eyes on your pet. Remember that feeling? It was pure joy! Allow yourself to remember all the good and bad times, like when he/she destroyed your couch or creeped onto your bed to comfort you after a horrible day. Go through your photographs and reminisce about each one, savoring every memory. Keep a journal and write down everything you remember about your pet.
Objects to Help You Remember
Some people have their pet cremated and keep the ashes in a special box. Others may hold onto their pet's special toy for keepsake. It's okay to have something to remember your pet by.
Getting a New Pet
You could never replace your pet that passed away, but sometimes obtaining a new pet can help distract you from your pain and give you new happiness. It will give you a new type of love and perspective. You can start making new memories, and the old memories of your beloved pet who passed away will be stored in your heart.
We know how difficult it is to lose a pet and hope that these recommendations can help you as you mourn your loss. It's okay to feel sadness for a while. It's a normal part of life. Let us know if you need anything at all when you lose your pet or are making the hard decision to euthanize. We are here for you!
